Inherited property with deceased brother's children. What are my options?

(50F) inherited my childhood home jointly with my brother after our father deeded it to us years before he passed away. My father always said he expected us to keep it because neither of us would agree to sell.

The property isn't in a desirable area and isn't worth a fortune, but it has a lot of sentimental value to me. After our father died and years later our grandfather who lived here also passed, my brother wanted to sell it immediately. I asked if we could keep it, and I offered to pay for all of the renovations myself with the understanding that improving the property would increase its value. Over the years, I've done extensive remodeling, mostly through my own labor and paying for materials. At this point, the only major projects left are finishing part of the attic, refinishing some floors, and painting the exterior.

My brother passed away two years ago. His ownership interest went to his two children. They inherited substantial assets from him, but they haven't contributed anything toward the house and don't seem interested in helping maintain it. I continue to pay for repairs and deal with ongoing homeowner issues, and the property has become a financial and emotional burden.

I'm worried about several things:

  • If I stop maintaining the property, it will lose value.
  • If we sell, can I recover any of the money or value I've invested in renovations, especially the improvements I paid for?
  • If they want to sell and I don't, or vice versa, what legal options do either side have?
  • Would I owe significant capital gains taxes if the property is sold, given that my father originally deeded it to us for $10 years ago?
  • Is there a legal way to separate our ownership so we're no longer financially tied together?

I'm in the United States, Location: (North Carolina).

I'm mainly trying to understand my legal options before speaking with an attorney. I know state law matters, but I'd appreciate any general guidance on what type of attorney I should consult and what issues I should be asking about.

Author: SuspectHonest1896