Location: New York
My wife and I conceived through IUI, I’m currently 23 weeks pregnant. She served me with divorce papers. Filed for no-fault divorce. She hasn’t reached out to speak to me about our unborn daughter- blocked and ghosted me fully. Really disgusting behavior. In the divorce papers which were served to me at 22 weeks pregnant, she filed for divorce alleging “There are no children of the marriage.” It seems to me that she might trying to get out of her parental responsibilities and abandon this child… the cryobank donor conceived child that we planned together, named together, and that she literally put inside of me with her own hands using a medical grade IUI catheter… We planned the pregnancy together and conceived during the marriage. I’m speaking with an attorney tomorrow. Could she actually somehow get out of her legal parental responsibilities in NYS??? I have literal photos of her performing the IUI on me. Her consent was enthusiastic. I’m deeply horrified by what is happening and my head is spinning.