Location: Florida.
My now ex girlfriend came home last week and basically told me that she doesn't love me anymore and broke up with me.
We have been living together for almost 9 years now.
Prior to our current home, we were renting a house and pretty much split the bills 60/40 as I made more money at the time.
She was working at a 50+ community as an office assistant at the time.
The opportunity came up for her to become the property manager of said community, which I encouraged her to take the job. The stipulation was that we (she) had to live in the community to become the property manager.
We moved out of our prior home to live in the community.
We have been living here for 3 years now.
The house is owned by the company that she works for. We don't pay rent, and all utilities are included that the company pays for. The only thing that we have had to pay for is the internet bill.
I was laid off from my job a year ago.
"Restructuring the business model" was the excuse I was given. I have been working jobs as an independent contractor still in my sector, but the pay isn't the same as it was when I was a salaried employee.
I'll admit that i wasn't saving my money like I should have because I didn't see anything wrong with our relationship and..well..I'm just dumb with saving money..
I bought a bunch of things that I thought were good for us to make our life better.
So far she has been cordial enough to let me continue to stay in the house until I get enough saved up to get a place of my own but I'm worried that she could just one day tell me "get out now"..
Sorry for the rambling, I'm still in shock with it all.
Just trying to find out if she, or the company can basically tell me to pack my stuff and leave with no notice..